Hi Iâ ™m fourteen years of age and I just happen to have unprotected sex twice and now I have this really big feeling in my stomach that Iâ ™m prego. I have not missed my period I will find that out next week if it will be a miss. At first I didnâ ™t think Iâ ™d be pregnant but then I started to do research and I found out I had more of the symptoms than I thought I had. It has been only a week and a few days since the first time we have had sex and itâ ™s been about four days since the most resent time. The guy who it was with is four years older than me, aka making him eighteen. I think itâ ™s to early for taking a pregnancy test. I just donâ ™t know what else to do besides the fact that my stomach has been aching and I feel that there is a very good chance that I am. However, if I do end up having a baby inside my stomach I wouldnâ ™t be able to get an abortion and Iâ ™d have the baby. Iâ ™d like some advice about what my next step should be.
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Even birth control does not always work.
This is why children should not have sex. You can't support yourself, let alone another person.
It's too early to tell anyway. This is showing a severe lack of sexual knowledge. You wouldn't fly a plane without lessons, would you? Good Lord. Quit while you're ahead.
If you didn't want to use a condom, there's birth control out there for a reason.
You do realize how illegal it is for an 18 year old to sleep with a 14 year old, right?
You don't sound smart enough to be having sex. Babies don't form inside of your STOMACH. ahaha.
You need to talk to your mom, even if you aren't pregnant. She will be there for you, she might be mad, but that's to be expected. You're 14 and too young to be having sex, but I'm sure you know that by now. No mom wants to hear that her 14 year old is knocked up. Tell her you think you're pregnant, and maybe she can be there when you get a pregnancy test. And if you're not pregnant, then she can get you on birth control and get you some condoms. Really, you need to smarten up. 14 and having a baby? Is that really what you want right now? If you have a baby, your life will be over. If you're not pregnant, get on birth control!
This guy won't be around for forever, eventually you'll find a guy your age who you like a whole lot better, and he won't want to be with a girl who has a baby. You know? Obviously something is wrong with him if he has to sleep with 14 year olds. The maturity difference between a 14 year old and an 18 year old is bigger than you think.
Good luck.
if you don't know that you shouldn't have risked having unprotected sex.
I hope for the baby you're not.
First off, you 'have this big feelings in your stomach'....after less then 2 weeks of having sex? Are you serious.
And you have more symptoms then you thought....obviously if you're thinking about it. Those symptoms can be related to a million things. Plus, when you think hard enough about it, you can convince your body about certain things.
Seriously kid, talk to an adult about sex. Or just attend school once and a while. Prego is not a word, besides a pasta sauce.
And you wouldn't experience anything until you were at least 5 weeks pregnant.
And your boyfriend can go to prison for having sex with a child. Get that?
By the way...good for you to say no to abortion.
but off topic
if i were you, buy a preg. test of get a friend or close one to
maybe then go to the doctors
they'll know best
i hope everything works out for you!
dont stress out and ignore judgement, theres obv nothing you can do now right, so dont let them hate on you
Oh btw whats with all the lip rings it is very unatractive..how could your parents let you be like that..ew
Second, What would make you want to have sex with an 18 year old.
I am not trying to judge you, because I have been in the same situation. I am now 20 and understand more.
If he is trying to have sex with a 14 year old, then the girls that arnt his age arnt having sex with him for a reason.
besides that, i don't understand why you wouldn't be able to have an abortion.. from what i know, i thought that abortion was free until you were a certain age, which i think is 16.
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